Debra Kunz

Time and time again, I hear from women who find Mr. Wonderful…except for…and then they list one huge deal-breaking issue. What all of their stories have in common is wanting me to help them figure out how to change that issue, eliminate it, or magically shift the situation so it suddenly doesn’t matter.

Not gonna happen.

It Takes Guts

As I’ve gently conveyed to these women, having standards and having the courage to use them takes different strength. Anyone can write up a dating standards list. The question is, did you dig deep into your soul and really reflect upon what’s on your list and why? Are the things on your list what you say you want or what you actually want? Did you consider your deal breakers and choose things that are truly important to you?

If so, then have the guts to use your standards. When you know what you want, it’s much easier to know when you find it… and when you don’t.

It’s a Commitment to Yourself

Sticking by your standards is making a commitment to yourself to honor who you are and what you need.

Date Deliberately,

Debra