Debra Kunz

No one wants to waste time on someone who isn’t a match. These 10 signs he’s not worth your time will short cut your dating process. It only takes one.

1.  You Keep Thinking He’s A Lot Like Your Ex

For whatever reason, you and your Ex weren’t the right match. What makes you think it will be any different with a guy who is just like him? Stop this dating pattern before it repeats itself. Just in case part of this pattern includes you changing yourself into what he wants, read how to stop your chameleon syndrome.

2.  He’s Rude to the Server is a Sign He’s Not Worth Your Time

Your dinner date is politely paying attention to you, but he’s horribly rude to the server and acts as if they have no purpose on the planet other than being at his beck and call. Could he be having a bad day? Maybe. Is he an entitled jerk who uses people for his own purpose? He did today.

3.  Doesn’t Call

It should be clear that if he’s not calling, he’s not interested, yet we women insist on investing an enormous amount of energy trying to figure out why. It doesn’t matter. If he wanted to see you, he’d call. Let this be an obvious sign that he’s not worth your time.

4.  He’s Competitive About Everything

Friendly competition can be fun and playful, but if he has to win at everything, he’s more like an insecure control freak. Seems the only way he understands his own value is if he can beat you at things. Clearly, he doesn’t know how to treat a woman well. Move on to someone who does.

5.  Only Talks About Himself

It’s fun to talk with a man who will share things about himself and his life, except when that’s all you ever talk about. He doesn’t ask about you or your life and if he does, it’s almost as if your problems or successes aren’t as important as his and you should get back to talking about him.

6.  Thinks You Should Invite Him to Your Place and You Just Met

If you want a fling, and you truly believe he’s not a scary creep, this man wants to be in your bed.  A man who is interested in getting to know you would not invite himself over when you just met.

7.  Constantly Checks His Phone

He’s out with you but clearly acts like he should be somewhere else or talking to someone else. You aren’t a priority, even though you’re right in front of him.

8.  He Lives With His Mother

The mamma’s boy values convenience over independence and to top it off probably complains that his Mother is too involved in his life. Let him go and find a man who is capable of living on his own and making choices without his Mother.

9. Still…

Click to read the last two signs he’s not worth your time.

Date Deliberately,

Debra