Debra Kunz

Sometimes knowing what you want is the hardest part of dating. We think we know, we assume we know, we get told that we know… except we still don’t. Not really. We might have a passing thought, or we might have identical ideas to all of our friends.

Actually, it’s more likely we know what we don’t want because we have a lot more experience with that. And, it’s that criteria that usually gets listed on our Mr. Right list first. Careful though, if you are venomously writing down things you don’t want, it’s possible you aren’t quite ready for what you do. Yep, it’s true. The good news is that can change if you want it to, and if you make an effort to heal through it.

Taking time to figure out what you really want means you’ve taken time to figure out yourself and who you are, now. You aren’t the same age you were before. You may not be in the same career, job or have the same company as before. Your kids have grown, or you’re figuring out day care, or you have aging parents, or maybe you moved to a new city. Along the way, you’ve learned about what you value, and what’s important in your life.

Apply that same knowledge to your love life and learn to date deliberately. It’s an evolution not a revolution so give yourself some time to grow through the dating process and have fun!

Help is on the way –

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, my gift to you is a free chapter from my book Love is Blind Only if You Are: A Woman’s Clear-Headed Guide to Deliberate Dating.  Get Chapter 1“That Dating Place – Is he interested? Am I? How do I know?” and learn to choose Mr. Right for You. Click to get yours.

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I also teamed up with several coaches to offer you a number of F*REE downloadable resources on a variety of related subjects like self-love, communicating with men, letting love in, or empowering your s*ex life. They are all complimentary and you can choose as many as you want.

Click here to see all the gifts and what support we can give you for a great Valentine’s Day! You’ll also find a link to my gift, a free chapter from my book Love is Blind Only if You Are: A Woman’s Clear-Headed Guide to Deliberate Dating.

Share this with your friends, these gifts are for anyone who can benefit from them, single, married or dating. Be sure to give them this specific link for the Valentine’s Day Giveaway: http://www.valentinesdaygiveaway.info/DebraKunz

Date Deliberately,

Debra