Making Your I’m Grateful List

During this Thanksgiving Holiday week, take some time to remember all of the blessings you have, whether or not you have that special someone in your life right now. If you have followed my posts for a while, you know that success begins with taking stock of yourself, your life, your choices, and who you…

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3 First Date Conversation Blunders

A first date is a time to feel the chemistry, laugh, talk and spend some time discovering if you’d like to see him again. It is not a time to flood him with your life story, every time you’ve ever been hurt, or your current life woes. We all have things we’re dealing with in…

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Your Pet Might Have Better Dating Standards Than You Do

Fellow animal lovers, our pets are a good barometer for the quality of the men we choose to date. This story came to mind as I was listening to a woman share a pet (dogs and cats) story with me recently. Many years ago, every time a man I was dating at the time was…

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Making Assumptions is Deadly in Dating

This week’s story is from the man’s perspective given that’s who was sharing this dating dilemma with me. The Scenario He met a woman at a neighborhood party and she gave him her number. He called her a few days later and she said she is busy for two weeks. In three weeks, he called…

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Where Will You Find Him?

Whenever I’m speaking for groups about deliberate dating, the number one question I always get is “where IS he???” “Where is my Mr. Right?” Unfortunately, no one likes my answer given I don’t know where he is. If I knew where everyone’s perfect match was, I’m sure I’d have a much more divinely inspired name….

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