How do I exit a date I’m still on?

Have you ever been on a date and learn he doesn’t meet a deal breaker, and you start thinking, “How can I leave? Right now?” I received this question this week so I thought I’d share the answer with everyone. In this particular scenario, she and her date went to a concert. I’d say there…

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Breakups – Are You Better or Bitter?

Divorce or a bad breakup changes your perspective on love and relationships. How it changes depends entirely on you. It could be for the better because you’ve taken time to learn something, or it could be for the bitter because you haven’t learned anything from the experience, nor examined or accepted your role in the…

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Online Dating Profile Tips: Don’t ever do this with your pictures.

Your photograph is a key piece of your online dating profile and what it says about you can determine how much, or what kind of interest you create. We all want to appear attractive online, but do not post revealing pictures of you in your undies, lingerie or bikini. Some of you are thinking, “Wow,…

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Please Vote – Best Dating Book and Dating Blog 2013 Nominations

Today I’m sharing some exciting news! My book, Love is Blind Only if You Are: A Woman’s Clear-Headed Guide to Deliberate Dating, has been nominated as the Best Dating Book, and my “Deliberate Dating” Blog has been nominated as Best Dating Blog. Please help me out by voting for both nominations below! Click on the picture…

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When Good Still Isn’t Mr. Right

You might discover a man who is good, kind, and decent… and he still isn’t the right one. This is a difficult situation for your head and your heart, though it is an example of knowing yourself, trusting your instincts and your decisions, and having the courage to use your standards. This happened to me. I…

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