Posted by Debra Kunz on 16 Apr 2013
Being a little nervous when you first start dating someone is simply being human. The problem is when you are so nervous, scared and worried about dating (or your life) that your sole focus is trying to impress him and be liked. You mold yourself to become what you think he wants, share tales of your life…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 9 Apr 2013
Someone in your life might have told you that “you’ll find him when you stop looking.” The reason it might actually work is because you stop worrying about the past, and then learn about yourself, live in the present and get comfortable with who you are. You can’t live in the future so if you’re…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 2 Apr 2013
“Don’t want to scare him off” is a phrase I’ve heard, and have used myself in the past. If he’s interested in you or wants to be in a relationship with you, he won’t be scared. If he is scared, it could be your values don’t match, you don’t have the same expectations about a…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 26 Mar 2013
There’s a big difference between who you end up with versus who you choose. End up with implies he arrived on your door step and you lost your ability to think for yourself. Like you had no options. No, I’m not talking about the weak in the knees feeling making your tongue tied. I mean…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 21 Mar 2013
Author Debra Kunz Speaks at Real Love KC Meetup Group Monday, April 8, 2013 7 – 8:30pm Event held at Unity Church, 103rd and Antioch, Overland Park, KS Public is welcome. Free to attend. Mixed audience of men and women. RSVP to debrakunz@deliberatedating.com. Get Debra’s book at deliberatedating.com, Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Books a Million…
