Top 5 Tips to Finding Mr. Right – TV Interview on Fox

Fox News in Kansas City invited me in today to share my “Top 5 Tips to Finding Mr. Right,” and featured my book “Love is Blind Only if You Are: A Woman’s Clear-Headed Guide to Deliberate Dating” as part of a Valentine’s Day story. It was so much fun being interviewed by Kim Byrnes! Click to…

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Visualize Your Valentine: If Mr. Right was standing next to you, how would you know?

Sometimes knowing what you want is the hardest part of dating. We think we know, we assume we know, we get told that we know… except we still don’t. Not really. We might have a passing thought, or we might have identical ideas to all of our friends. Actually, it’s more likely we know what…

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Is it a Date or a Relationship?

One very important distinction in your dating journey is the difference between a date and a relationship. Going out with someone once is a date, not a relationship or life long commitment. Even going out with him a few times is still dating, not a relationship. Don’t view the first few dates as “forever,” simply…

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He’s Great! Well… Except for… – Dating Men You Want to Change

Choosing to date someone you want to change is a waste of time. Even if you’re trying to expand his fashion sense, you’re trying to change him. No one, including you, wants to date someone who wants to change them – like they aren’t good enough to be accepted the way they are. Why would…

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Dating and Gifts During the Holidays

There are no hard and fast rules about dating and gifts during the holidays, though here are my thoughts. If you have been seeing someone for little awhile, get something small. If you aren’t seeing anyone exclusively, it’s up to you if you’d like to choose something. In either case, don’t go overboard on spending….

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