What Does He Get When He Pays?

The first date scenario went like this. They met at the movie theater and he paid for the show for both of them. Given they didn’t meet for coffee or lunch or even dinner first, there was zero conversation before sitting in a dark theater together. (No, I don’t recommend only going to the movies…

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You Can’t Date Successfully Without This

Dating success takes a lot of things. You’ve probably already experienced many of them like being willing to take a risk, having a first date outfit that makes you feel like superwoman, figuring out a way to manage your nerves, and allowing the possibility that you will find Mr. Right for You. On top of…

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Are your Relationship Goggles keeping you from finding him?

Relationship Goggles are more blinding than beer goggles given relationships goggles blind you to more than his appearance. Relationship goggles means you’re viewing the next guy based on the last one, and measuring the next relationship based on the failures of the last. It’s not fair to him, or to you. If you make a…

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How do I exit a date I’m still on?

Have you ever been on a date and learn he doesn’t meet a deal breaker, and you start thinking, “How can I leave? Right now?” I received this question this week so I thought I’d share the answer with everyone. In this particular scenario, she and her date went to a concert. I’d say there…

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Breakups – Are You Better or Bitter?

Divorce or a bad breakup changes your perspective on love and relationships. How it changes depends entirely on you. It could be for the better because you’ve taken time to learn something, or it could be for the bitter because you haven’t learned anything from the experience, nor examined or accepted your role in the…

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