Posted by Debra Kunz on 9 Apr 2013
Someone in your life might have told you that “you’ll find him when you stop looking.” The reason it might actually work is because you stop worrying about the past, and then learn about yourself, live in the present and get comfortable with who you are. You can’t live in the future so if you’re…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 26 Mar 2013
There’s a big difference between who you end up with versus who you choose. End up with implies he arrived on your door step and you lost your ability to think for yourself. Like you had no options. No, I’m not talking about the weak in the knees feeling making your tongue tied. I mean…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 5 Mar 2013
Few women escape the programming that starts at the beginning of our lives: be a princess and wait for prince charming to come and rescue us. What we’re being rescued from is still a mystery, though I am certainly a product of that belief, and those experiences. The programming issues surface as they translate into…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 19 Feb 2013
Let’s say you stuck to your Deal Breakers and gave him a chance. Well, that’s assuming you know what your Dating Deal Breakers are. And… well… you stuck to them except for the one Deal Breaker you decided to make an exception about… and didn’t tell your friends about… because you knew they would call…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 29 Jan 2013
One very important distinction in your dating journey is the difference between a date and a relationship. Going out with someone once is a date, not a relationship or life long commitment. Even going out with him a few times is still dating, not a relationship. Don’t view the first few dates as “forever,” simply…
