Posted by Debra Kunz on 26 Mar 2013
There’s a big difference between who you end up with versus who you choose. End up with implies he arrived on your door step and you lost your ability to think for yourself. Like you had no options. No, I’m not talking about the weak in the knees feeling making your tongue tied. I mean…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 21 Mar 2013
Author Debra Kunz Speaks at Real Love KC Meetup Group Monday, April 8, 2013 7 – 8:30pm Event held at Unity Church, 103rd and Antioch, Overland Park, KS Public is welcome. Free to attend. Mixed audience of men and women. RSVP to debrakunz@deliberatedating.com. Get Debra’s book at deliberatedating.com, Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Books a Million…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 12 Mar 2013
I’m guessing “But… He’s Different!” may have escaped your lips at some point. Maybe even with a tilt of your head and hope in your eyes. If you were reading last week’s post, you learned about the programming few women escape that I’ve named Cinderella Head. Well, our Cinderella Head creates the “But… He’s Different!” condition. I’ve heard…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 5 Mar 2013
Few women escape the programming that starts at the beginning of our lives: be a princess and wait for prince charming to come and rescue us. What we’re being rescued from is still a mystery, though I am certainly a product of that belief, and those experiences. The programming issues surface as they translate into…
Posted by Debra Kunz on 26 Feb 2013
Some of you might be thinking, “I should know more about this dating stuff by now. I’m an adult woman. I’m smart. I’ve raised children (or are raising children.) Ran a household. Ran a business. Have grandchildren. Have a career.” Well, let me tell you – your dating age has nothing to do with the year you…
