“But… He’s Different!” – Part 2 of Your Cinderella Head is Showing

I’m guessing “But… He’s Different!” may have escaped your lips at some point. Maybe even with a tilt of your head and hope in your eyes. If you were reading last week’s post, you learned about the programming few women escape that I’ve named Cinderella Head. Well, our Cinderella Head creates the “But… He’s Different!” condition. I’ve heard…

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Are You a Cinderella Head? – Part 1

Few women escape the programming that starts at the beginning of our lives: be a princess and wait for prince charming to come and rescue us. What we’re being rescued from is still a mystery, though I am certainly a product of that belief, and those experiences. The programming issues surface as they translate into…

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Your Dating Age – It’s not about your birthday.

Some of you might be thinking, “I should know more about this dating stuff by now. I’m an adult woman. I’m smart. I’ve raised children (or are raising children.) Ran a household. Ran a business. Have grandchildren. Have a career.” Well, let me tell you – your dating age has nothing to do with the year you…

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Top 5 Tips to Finding Mr. Right – TV Interview on Fox

Fox News in Kansas City invited me in today to share my “Top 5 Tips to Finding Mr. Right,” and featured my book “Love is Blind Only if You Are: A Woman’s Clear-Headed Guide to Deliberate Dating” as part of a Valentine’s Day story. It was so much fun being interviewed by Kim Byrnes! Click to…

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Visualize Your Valentine: If Mr. Right was standing next to you, how would you know?

Sometimes knowing what you want is the hardest part of dating. We think we know, we assume we know, we get told that we know… except we still don’t. Not really. We might have a passing thought, or we might have identical ideas to all of our friends. Actually, it’s more likely we know what…

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