Debra Kunz

The short answer is YES you should to go the singles dating event with your friends. Another answer is WHY NOT? A third is WHAT’S HOLDING YOU BACK?

Why You Should Go to a Singles Dating Event

It’s fun! Ok, maybe for you it’s petrifying though look at it as an adventure. You can stay home, again, and complain about being single…or that the guys you’ve been out with lately aren’t interesting to you…or you can go have some fun with your friends and see who might be there!

Get to go somewhere new. Lots of singles dating events are held in cool places. Might even be one you haven’t been to yet.

Low pressure. It’s a casual environment and an easy going opportunity to strike up a conversation without pressure.

You know everyone is single. It’s a singles event so start with the assumption that people are being honest about that instead of being suspicious that they aren’t. Otherwise, you’ll spend the evening analyzing everyone instead of just relaxing and enjoying yourself.

Just think, you might meet an intriguing man you’d like to see again at this singles dating event!

Excuses You Can Use to Stay Home and Avoid the Singles Dating Event

The excuse that “there won’t be any ‘quality’” men there. I mean, who goes to these things?” Well, you might be going and you are a “quality” person, right?

Worrying about rejection. You can spend your time worrying about what might happen. Usually “what if he likes me, but I don’t like him?” comes to mind. Especially since you’ll both be “stuck” at the event that evening. That could happen. It could also happen in reverse of course. If this is what’s running through your mind, you’re stopping yourself before you even get started. Knock it off.

I have to…

Read the rest of the excuses and the one thing that could happen on Singles Warehouse >

Date Deliberately,

Debra

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