With all of the time we spend at work, it’s easy to focus on the men we meet there, and the one in particular who caught our attention. For some, dating in the workplace is an automatic answer to the question of where will you find him? These tips just might help you keep your job, and your sanity, should things go awry.
Sneaking a Kiss
It’s exciting to sneak around and have secret meetings, though keep your rendezvous out of the office. You’re just asking for trouble. If you are dating in the workplace, discretion is your friend, and it’s a better friend than the co-worker you just told about your date.
If You Work Together
Have an agreement with each other so that you both understand that when you are at work you behave as colleagues, and not as if you are dating. It’ll help you stay focused so you each get your work done, and it will help you during those meetings when you think no one is noticing you two gazing at each other, except they are. Don’t underestimate your co-workers’ powers of perception, especially if they suspect there’s dating in the workplace.
Staying in Touch When You Are Dating in the Workplace
Don’t use company email to talk about your plans, what happened last night, or how much you like each other. Yes, you should have some measure of privacy at work, but technically you don’t. You’re at work and it might even say in the HR manual that your boss can read your email any time they like.
Are You Risking…
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Date Deliberately,
Debra
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